When a loved one dies, you’ll want to choose a send-off that feels just right. We’ve put together some suggestions to help you plan that final farewell while keeping costs down.
Shop around
As with organising any event, going to more than one provider is hugely beneficial. From funeral homes to celebrants, asking for quotes from a variety of professionals will help you find the best deal, as well as the most fitting tribute for your loved one.
Ask for help
Calling around for quotes won’t be a top priority when you’re grieving, so if you can, reach out to family and friends to help.
If friends or loved ones have particular skills, such as baking or flower arranging, don’t be afraid to ask if they can offer their service while you cover the cost of materials.
Prioritise what’s important
By considering what’s important to you and the person you’re remembering, you can cut through a lot of those ‘extra’ costs. Do you need a procession of funeral cars or will your own car or a taxi do just fine? Do you need bespoke flowers from a florist or is there a different way that you can add your own personal touch?
Do you need a formal wake?
Hiring a venue and paying for caterers can be a significant cost when it comes to planning a funeral, but what most people want from a wake is the chance to come together and chat about their memories of the person.
With this in mind, could you organise something smaller and more informal, for example a family meal or a gathering at someone’s house or garden with everyone bringing an item of food?
If you want to hire a space, a village hall or a room in your local community centre will often be cheaper than a pub or hotel and may allow you to provide your own food and drinks.
Hospiscare’s bereavement service is here to support you. Please contact Supportive Care for more information on 01392 688088.
